“My husband likes anal stimulation but I don’t know anything about stimulating a man anally. What are some things we can experiment with? We are open minded about toys. “
If you are open minded about experimenting with anal toys then the world is your oyster. Have you even tried hand stimulation with your husband? Have you tried rimming? Rimming is oral stimulation using your tongue on his anus externally. If you are open to it, you yourself should allow for your husband to try all the same anal play on you as well.
There are many anal vibrators and dildos which are shaped differently then the vaginal vibrators. Don’t go for small when size shopping. Go for medium or larger. I made the mistake of ordering small and it seemed pointless once you have lube on it there is not enough friction.
You can pick up a box of surgical gloves at your local drug store and some water based lubrication and play doctor. Depending on how kinky or experimental you may want to get you can try all kinds of fun couple anal play. You can purchase a double sided dildo or strap on to please both of you. Another is the anal plug. I personally like the vibrating anal plugs and again wish I went larger then small. Your husband can wear the anal plug while he is penetrating you vaginally or anally.
A suggestion made by a friend of mine was to try the Better Finger vibrator. He says it is small like the size of Chapstick but it worked amazing. If anyone has any other anal toy suggestions please let me know. I’m in the mood to shop 
