How to tell my girlfriend that I wanna fuck her in her ass?

“How can i tell my girlfriend that i wanna fuck her in her ass ?”

I love this question and obviously for those who have read my site know that I love anal sex.  I just love sex in general.  So regarding how to tell her is much easier since you are most likely already having vaginal sex.  Have you already asked her if she has ever tried it?  If she says “yes” ask her about her experience.  Ask her if she enjoyed anal sex.  Ask her what she disliked or really liked.  If she had a bad time make sure to find out why.  Maybe the previous anal sex partner was way too rough or pulled out too fast tearing her asshole.

Keep in mind men that your partner male or female has to sit and shit out of their asshole after you are done fucking it.  Show some kindness and understand that your partner is allowing you to make them your bitch.  So that being said, once you get the info regarding her anal sex history then move forward and tell her you’d really like to try it.

So here is the drawback. I have had a few friends that were very anti anal sex and they tried to create balance.  So don’t be surprised if your partner asks for you to take it in the ass too.  That may be for the kinkier girls.  But if you are unwilling to try it or allow for her to bend you over then why should she?

I’m just bringing some light to the subject that  straight men are pushy about anal and threesomes but when it is turned on them it is very disgusting and unwanted.  For you straight men think about what you are asking.  Be understanding and patient with your partner.

To get her thinking about anal sex you can get some lube on your fingers and while eating her out you can take your thumb and rub it around her anal area.  If she squirms right away don’t jump back. Keep on it unless she keeps squirming in an annoyed way.  You don’t want to ruin the mood too much.  If she does not squirm away maybe try slowing sliding your pointer finger in. Make sure it is very lubed so as to not hurt her. The more lubed it is the more she will think “oh this is not bad at all” “oh this is actually really nice and strange and hot”.  Stay on her clit to distract her while entering her ass with your finger.  Don’t try anal sex this time.  Get some feedback from her after you are done getting it on.  Then you say “i’d really like to try anal sex“.  Assure her you will listen to her and go at what ever speed she can do.  I can tell you that the slower the worse it is at first.  Until she gets use to the feeling and the lube gets all inside she won’t be comfy. Maybe have her vibrate her clit while you are doing it to help distract the starting discomfort.

Don’t be overly aggressive or you may scare her off from trying anal sex with you even if she or he has tried it before. Have fun and be safe!

Kisses,

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