Bite Me Please

Your first thought when someone says “bite me” may not be of a sexual nature.  Odaxelagnia is the name given to those who bite out of pleasure.  There are many levels of biting.  Some like to nibble, gnaw, or chomp down on their partners.  Recently a reader told me that his lady bites his dick so hard until he cannot take it any longer then he slides it in her pussy so her pussy can kiss it all better. Honestly I thought that was incredibly hot.

When biting your partners genitalia (dick or pussy lips) take note that they may be very sensitive.  Those who would like to bring biting into the bedroom can do so gracefully by nibbling (small bites) on their partners wrist, neck, ankle, ass, earlobes, or nipples.  Gauge their response and be respectful because you may actually induce non pleasurable pain.

Pleasurable pain?  Biting feels good and induces physical euphoric responses that are sexually arousing.  Not all biting does that.  A dog biting my arm is not the same as my partner biting my inner thigh.  The mental and emotional sensations that are formed are received by my brain as “do it again”. We all get turned on by different forms of mental or physical stimulation.  I have had one partner who was into biting my elbows.  To me it was different and not really a turn on but for him it was the fastest way to an orgasm.

Biting can show up in other forms…

• BDSM biting:  Can be used in submissive  and dominant relationships. The dominant partner can bite to show dominance or the sub partner may bite to rebel in hopes of punishment.
• Chewing fetish: If you all remember my post on feederism the chewing fetish is associated with sexual pleasure from watching their partner chew food.

• Vampire fetish: Takes the biting to a new level in hopes of inducing blood or a wound.  The intentions are not to ever hurt one another beyond the surface.

• Nail biting: During sex it seems dirty to some but your fingers and toes have a lot of  nerves all huddled into one spot so the sensations can be incredible.

There are other fetishes that include biting chunks of skin and eating the flesh or lapping up the blood. So sorry for those visuals. I personally don’t feel they are the same as someone who bites for sexual satisfaction.  They may be along the same lines but for those who are into biting i’d like to make some distinctions that you can take anything to the extreme.  You are not a freak or alone if you have the need to bite or get high from it.  I urge that no matter what fetish or sexual act you choose with your partner that they be consenting and that their boundaries are respected.

Kisses,

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