Feederism: “Feeder” and “Feedee” or aka “Gainer” and “Encourager”

About a year ago I happened to fall upon a movie called “Feed“. I had heard some info regarding the underground fetish of feederism but not much. So I saw this movie and got a whole glimpse at it Hollywood style. So I started suggesting the movie to friends due to it’s very demented story line. Come to find out one of my friends actually was very well informed on the subject. He himself was not a feeder but a lover of the very large girls. The more he told me the more I wanted to know. So I dove in and started reading non stop and asking questions on different boards. So you might be asking what is “feederism”? as some others put it it’s an erotic fetish that morphs the body. In “feederism” one partner plays the role of the “feeder” who feeds his/her partner large amounts of food continuously to achieve body modification. The one who eats all the food and and undergoes the transformation is known as the “feedee”. It is a mental and physical turn on for both partners not just one of them. Many say it’s twisted and sick and a form of killing your partner or yourself if you are the “feedee”. I personally equivalate it with people who tattoo, pierce, and mod their bodies in other ways. This is just a lot less painful :-) But also, much less healthy then a tattoo. There are many sites and groups out there that have men and women searching for these kinds of relationships. Just so there is a separation…not all men who are into large girls are “feeders”. Some men just love a large beautiful lady. The name “Gainer” has been used interchangeably with the word “feedee”. Usually someone gaining weight by themselves without a “feeder” aka “encourager” will use the title “gainer” to describe themselves. The movie “Feed” that I was first talking about is a twisted extreme view of this fetish. The fetish itself is very erotic in regards to viewing the body as a temple and worshiping it and providing to the gods by bringing gifts. I guess that is an over the top view but it is a way of helping you “non-feeders” maybe understand what makes a “feeder” keep feeding.

I love this Fetish! It’s not my personal fetish but it definitely gets my attention and I can see why it’s a turn on. For those who are interested as a “feeder” or “feedee” this needs to be a mutual safe relationship. Not a forceful, manipulating, or hurtful relationship.

In a joking manner if you are a Jewish, Italian, or Mexican mama you are naturally a “feeder” and get joy out of feeding your man and are very unhappy when they do not eat. Also, you are never satisfied with how much they ate until they are totally stuffed. As a side not here: “Stuffing” is another sub group of “feederism”. “Stuffing” is when you stuff the “feedee” or “gainer” or your partner until they are so full they are bloated and their stomach distends. I’ll save “stuffing” for another Monday because there is a whole other fetish world that belongs to it.

Kisses,

Ask Naughty Nikki

If interested i’ve included a site with a “gainer” her name is Miss Mina. In the “big girl” world she is very famous. There is a free tour so you can see pics of her. This is a site with adult content. There is nothing downloaded to your computer but if you decide to look further then her free vids and pics there is a membership fee. Just thought i’d share it so you can see what else is out there in the big girl world :-)

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