Happy Anal Sex Day!

Dear Habib,

You left a comment under my post on What is Dental Dam? You were asking how to fuck someone in the ass.   I have to tell you that anal sex is one of my favorite holidays to celebrate.

I have received many Happy Passover and Happy Easter comments as of recent so I thought I would wish you all a Happy Anal Sex Day!

Habib you have come to the right lady asking for Anal Sex advice.  Since I don’t know if you are wanting to have anal sex with a man or women I will answer your question helping you either way.  I’m a huge believer that Anal Sex requires lubrication.  Next you will need a partner that is relaxed and turned on.  An easy way to turn on your soon to be Anal Sex partner is to start a heavy make out session and then move to some fantastic oral sex. While going down on your partner either sucking their dick or eating some delicious pussy start fingering their asshole.  This is where the lubrication should come into play.  Most water based lubes will work.  We use KY or Astroglide depending who reaches to which side of the bed to get the lube. Make sure to lubricate your fingers before inserting.

If you prime your guy or gals ass with some lube and then grease down your dick with some lube as well you should be ready to start.  Most people  go for the doggy style anal sex when first starting out.  My favorite is missionary anal sex just for the intimacy factor.  Go slow to start but not too slow.  Be aware of your partners reactions. They may wince a little when starting out but don’t stop or slow down because that will hurt more.

At this point while you are starting to build up speed help your partner take their mind off of the initial odd feelings, pressures, or small pains.  Help them relax by reaching around and pinching their nipples, rubbing their clit, or starting a hand job on your partners dick.  This will help reduce your partners tension and as soon as they relax they will begin to enjoy themselves immensely.

Another one of my favorite anal sex or vaginal sex positions  is to be brought to the edge of the bed on my back and have my legs up on my mans shoulders while he pounds away. This position is great because you or your girl can rub on her clit or you can give your man a great hand job or he can masturbate in front of you while you fuck his ass.

I always suggest a condom when not in a long term relationship.  Personally I suggest it even if you are in a long term relationship.  I’d say the only downsides after anal sex besides my mans dick not being sanitary is having the cum in my ass.  Honestly it’s just a bit strange .  Frankly some guys and girls just don’t want to shit cum out of their ass.  So if you can convince your partner to let you pull out and cum on them they may be more grateful.  Keep in mind when removing your dick if you go to fast or too slow you may hurt your partner so again pay attention to their reactions.  It’s okay to ask questions and ask if you can go harder, slower, faster, deeper.

Again i’m wishing you all a Happy Anal Sex Day!

Kisses,

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