How do I get a guy that doesn’t just want to fuck my brains out?

Dear Cheri,

That’s a hard one. Assuming you have many great traits to offer besides your cooch I’m thinking whatever you do is don’t lower your standards. I asked around to a few men and they all laughed at the question because honestly that is mostly what men want. I’d say develop friendships first and make that guy that is trying to get in your pants work for it. i do know that those that I didn’t make work for it were very temporary. It’s the old saying of “Why buy

the cow when you can get the milk for free?” Pretty much stating that a man is not going to enter into a committed relationship more often then not if he is already getting the sex.

I am not telling you to be ultra bitch or to use your cooch (vagina) as some all higher power

putting him through hell to get there. But if you take the time to actually get to know each other then more likely then not you may have a better chance of getting the emotional and intellectual needs you are searching for and he will get the sexual relief that he is in need of.

Kisses,

Ask Naughty Nikki