Dear Sam,
Not having a ton of info on you or the girl you are trying to convince to give you head i’m going to pretend that you have met someone who is VERY new to oral sex.
Depending on the communication between you and your partner you may ask the girl that you are with if she has ever performed oral (bj, bbbj, head) before.
Do not have this conversation right before you make out. That will make it uncomfortable for her. But if you plant it in her brain ahead of time your transition during making out will be much smoother.
Getting us women in the mood is not all flowers, music, and candles. All women have different levels of being “horny”. I can say location is important when doing something new or showing of our bodies may matter to some girls. So make sure you are in a safe comfortable place.
- Start with kissing
- Get to the point where hands start roaming
- Smoothly as possible get the bra off. Spend time on her nipples. Figure out if she likes flicking with the tip of your tongue, or does she like sucking, does she want some biting (always start everything light until encouraged to do more)
- If her reactions become “hot and bothered” indicated by moaning and moving around then take some action and move her hand to your penis area (on the outside of the pants). Her first reaction will be to move quickly away from that area. Wait a few more moments and move her hand back. Kiss her deeply while doing this. She will get the point and start to rub. Some with experience will take initiative to undo your pants and the newer girls will need you to undo the top button or belt to give direction. Girls are mostly taught to not do these things that you men are taught to get us to do. So there will be hesitation on her part.
- DO NOT force her head down to your penis. Let her play around and find some comfort in holding your penis depending on the girl this may be her first time. For a moment lean back while she is becoming acquainted with your penis moving her hand up and down and let her see your reactions to this. This will turn her on and give her more incentive to provide more satisfaction to you. Say things like “oh that feels so good” or “omg your hands are so soft that feels incredible”
- After you get the feeling that she may be more comfortable ask her nicely if she would “suck on it” or “kiss down below”
- After that point you will just have to provide direction to what feels good and what doesn’t. Be cautious on your delivery because if you hurt her ego you may not get anymore oral encounters from her.
Kisses,
plurk
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