At certain points in a woman’s pregnancy she may feel very tired, fat, unattractive, or emotional. Her body has changed and morphed so much and sex was the cause of that. Just like any other women taking the time to get her mind turned on will benefit you both. Keep in mind all women not just pregnant women need to be treated this way.
When a women has a lot on her mind the last thing she is thinking about is stripping naked and fucking you. Is there something she has been asking for you to do? Is there something she has been trying to get done or needs help with? Some women need you to stimulate their emotions and mind before you stimulate their clit. I know even as a sex addict myself, that if my partner is doing the dishes I am grateful for them taking the time to ease my day. What can you do to ease her day?
If you can get her to a place in her day where she is willing to let you take some control over how she feels, create a small getaway for her. The furthest you need to go is the bedroom or living room and create an area of comfort. Make sure her back will be comfortable and her head has something soft to rest on. Depending on how far along she is in her pregnancy you may need some extra pillows. Having sex while pregnant is safe and amazing. I personally suggest that you have some light scented or non scented oil on hand. Lotion is nice but it will only go so far and it is harder to work with in regards to sliding your hands along her body.
Start with putting a clean sheet down on the bed or floor and this way she is not worried about getting the bed or carpet dirty with the oil. Oh don’t forget to either put the lights low or have some candles burning. If you have a way to put some low light music in the room that would be nice as well. She will need to be naked. You can either play the role of a masseuse and leave the room while she gets naked and have another sheet there for her to cover with. You could stay and slowly undress her and kiss her softly and tell her how beautiful she is. She may say something negative or be uncomfortable with her body so just quiet her telling her to try and relax and to let you help her do that. Have her lay down on her back and if she is not comfortable make her comfortable with more pillows supporting her body.
Pour the oil into your hands and warm it up by rubbing your hands together. Rub her belly slowly in circles for a few minutes then move through the middle of her chest but do not touch her nipples. Take your hands down her arms and on each side softly massage her hands. Move back up to her shoulders and back through the middle of her breasts again not touching her nipples. Go back to slowly massaging her belly and move your hands down to her thighs. Move your hands to inside of her thighs but don’t touch her pussy yet. Move down her legs massaging and adding more oil as needed. Massage her feet for a few minutes but try not to tickle her. Move your hands back up her body again avoid touching her pussy. Add some more oil and go back to massaging her belly. At this point kiss her and tell her how beautiful she is. Keep moving your hands around until you slide your hands to her pussy. Use your whole hand to slide up and down until your fingers start to go into position sliding two fingers between her pussy lips sliding over her clit. Start to work on her nipples with your tongue and lips. Don’t just hop on her, give her some time to get turned on. When she starts to moan and breathe heavier you can then slide inside of her.
I can personally tell you that Doggie Style was my favorite position when I was pregnant. Vitamin E oil was supposedly suppose to help with stretch marks but really it’s more of a myth. I was also told that Vitamin E oil on the vaginal area rubbed in circles was suppose to help with vaginal tearing during the birth process. I still had to have stitches but getting it rubbed on me was very nice. If you can’t get her to relax talk to her about it. Tell her that having a baby is not the end of the romance and sex in your lives. You don’t want to lose that part of your relationship because that is when screaming, anger, and splitting up become a part of your life.
Kisses,
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