Dear Magnificence,
I’m not sure if this is a physical issue or you just being greedy creating your physical issue. In your statement you said “I am greedy about my orgasms”. Stop being so greedy! Give him some pleasure. Give him foreplay time so he can cum more then once. This way he recovers while getting you off and you both get equal pleasure from sex play.
If this is an actual condition then you have the opposite problem of most women. Many are dry and the discomfort that goes with that can be quite painful for both partners involved. Many i’m sure read your dilemma and thought why is that a problem? Well if you are too lubed then there is no friction for either of you and that results in a lack of orgasm and feeling for both. As a precaution i’d get checked out by a doctor for STD’s to rule those out. There are lots of suggested & tried methods out there. Most have some sort of side effect and provide no help.
Suggestions to help tighten the vaginal muscles are a bit more optimistic then lessening your natural lubrication. Some suggestions are creams that you can get at the sex shops that will help with tightening the muscles. The creams take time to start working so you’d have to plan the timing on that method. Unfortunately you still remain overly wet. You can try good ol’ fashion Kegels to help tighten your vaginal muscles. There are multiple items that you can get from the sex stores to insert into your vagina that will help exercise your vaginal muscles like Ben Wa Balls.
Suggestions to lessen your over abundance of natural vaginal lubrication are a lot less hopeful. There is an annoying option to interrupt your sex and wipe off with a towel. You can take a thin towel wrapped around two fingers and insert into the vagina or use a vaginal sponge and insert. Unfortunately, it will hurt due to you being overly dry during re-entry to the vagina. Also, that will only help for a few moments until you get turned on and wet again. In your search for products stay away from one that is advertised under the name Absorbshun. It is a powder (cornstarch) that is said to help reduce your moisture and look like the miracle answer to your problem. Unfortunately those who tried it suffered a swollen vagina inside and outside. Also, the companies website and ability to buy it online has totally vanished.
There are medical options, laser and electrical stimulants to the cervix area. Unfortunately there is not a 100% guarantee for that option either. It is more expensive and many say it worked temporary or not at all.
I wish I had better news for you. Unfortunately, you have been blessed with the opposite of what most women wish they had.
Kisses,
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