Dear Slow Guy,
Not knowing more details makes that a hard dating question to answer. I’m not sure if you are already dating her. Are you work friends? Do you hang out in a group of friends? Do you know her from online?
With all the unknowns I will try my best to help you out. Some key things us girls do when interested in someone are: (Does not apply to all females)
1. We laugh at your jokes
2. We touch you when talking to you
3. We volunteer to do things we really have no interest in doing just so we can spend time with you
4. We look at you for extended periods of time.
5. We may become awkward around you the minute you show up at a social gathering some girls will pretend to not notice you because some become very shy
6. We will tease you
So at this point either you have recognized that this person actually does like you and now you need to either stop worrying if you are already dating her and if not ask her out!!! If you are not sure how to ask her out start asking her questions to get to know her. Ask about her taste in music? does she go to concerts? What kind of art does she like? Has she been to any exhibits or galleries recently? Does she do the club scene? where does she typically like to go? ask questions and based on her information you can then do some research and invite her to an event or place. The other option is to skip all that and ask her to dinner. That way you can ask all those questions on your first date.
If she turns you down listen for the reason as to why…”oh I can’t I have a family thing Friday night”…if she counter offers with another night she is interested or you can say check your calender and we can try hanging out another night this week then. If she continues with excuses or i’m seeing someone obviously she is not into you and you have lost nothing. Now you know!
There are a ton of girls out there so don’t get knocked off your throne if one of us turns you down. There are plenty of great girls willing to go out with you. Just show confidence and you will be fine.
Kisses,
Ask Naughty Nikki
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