Dear Ann,
Get rid of the vibrator! I’d never tell you that unless I could honestly say that I have had to do it. The reality is that your husbands dick can’t recreate the feeling of what a vibrator can do. His dick doesn’t have 7 different speeds and only comes in basic colors 
Using your vibrator is great and fun and can spice up the bedroom when used together. Reality is that if your clit and g-spot get used to the vibrator stimulation you will be unable to orgasm with good ol’ fingers, tongue, and dick.
Maybe take a time out from the vibrator (i’m not saying forever) and use your hand when you are masturbating in private so that when you two are together he will be able to help you achieve the “O” face that he needs to for his ego.
One thing i’ve done is chill out on my vibrator use or I don’t finish the job so that later when my man comes to rock my world I am much more prepped to cum. Also, check the vibration level you are using. If you can learn to cum with a lower vibration then the crazy lawn mower power then you will have an easier time with manual stimulation.
Try different toys and pathways to help the orgasm along. My recent purchase for my man is the vibrating cock ring. I’ll let you know how it works or if it’s even worth it.
Kisses,
Ask Naughty NIkki
plurk
Twitter
StumbleUpon
Myspace
Digg
Youtube
Flickr