Dear KJK,
You can read my recent post as to why anal sex feels so good at the following link:
http://asknaughtynikki.com/why-does-anal-sex-feel-so-good
Many girls enjoy the hard pounding that goes with anal sex. I know from my own experience I can feel everything when having anal sex. Sometimes due to my own personal vaginal lubrication I lose some of the sensitivity that goes with vaginal sex. When i’m having anal I can feel a large sensation in my whole body. It is quadruple the feeling of doggy style. In doggy style (vaginal sex) you are able to penetrate deeper and harder. Women love this feeling as a general statement. I know I do! But in anal doggy or anal missionary you can create that same feeling many times over for your girlfriend.
The other part of anal sex is it brings the focus back to me in my own head. Many times women focus on their partners enjoyment and lose the ability to orgasm or truly enjoy sex altogether. So many women report not being able to orgasm or being bored with sex. With anal sex women have no ability to focus on anything but their own comfort. Women need to make sure the speed, lube, and pounding factors are all correct and once they are she can relax. As the bottom (person receiving anal penetration) I automatically know that my partner is satisfied. Men as a general statement love the tight hole and controlling their orgasm is usually more of the issue instead of trying to achieve one.
Touching back on why your girlfriend may enjoy the anal over vaginal can also occur because she has learned that while you are penetrating her in anal, she can stimulate all of her other orgasm opportunities. She has the ability to rub on her clit inducing an orgasm. She can use a vibrator or her fingers up in her pussy hitting her G-spot, also inducing an orgasm.
If you have a girlfriend that enjoys anal sex I would do nothing to change that. I personally like to mix it up so that my man and I never have the same sex twice. If you find yourself in anal doggy or anal missionary more often then not try some new anal sex positions. Keep in mind that most if not all vaginal positions can be morphed into anal sex positions. Here are some ideas to keep your anal sex from getting to predictable:
Intense Sniper Anal or a version of Sexy Suzie Anal
Spooning Anal
Deck Chair Folded Anal
Version of Spoon Split Anal
Arm Chair Anal
Reverse Cow Girl Anal
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Good read … headline catchy … good points, some of which I have learned along the way as well (humility, grace, layoff the controversial stuff). Will share with my colleagues at work as we begin blogging from a corporate perspective. Thanks!